Meet Bianca J
I live for coffee and red wine. I love being in the kitchen and creating delicious food with love. Although I auditioned for MasterChef SA, I quickly realised that I'd rather focus on feeding people I love, rather than competing with others for a judge's approval.
I have spent most of my working life in the service industry. From hotel and hospitality work, working back stage in theatres to travel consultant and concierge - there is a wealth of experience under my belt.
Although my journey to motherhood was a difficult one, I generally love motherhood. I think all mothers have their moments! Doing it in my 40s was definitely not what I planned, but overall it's working out ok.
Homeschooling was a decision Brian and I came to through watching TED talks and realising how much the world has and will change, and how much we really want to ensure our children are prepared for what is to come.
I'm a bit of a knowledge junkie and a word lover. Spelling and grammar issues grate my nerves and I used to love reading. I'm hoping one day I'll get to read "grown up" books again!
Throughout my life though the one overarching factor has been Empowerment.
My Journey
How my Story unfolds. The things that have made me who I am and how my passions have developed.
"They" say you shouldn't include a timeline on your About You page, and that it should really be about the ideal client and how I can help you. Well that's just it though. My timeline is the perfect example of how I can help you. I'm multifaceted and so are you, and for that reason it's helpful to see all the things I've done to know if I'm the right person to work with.
1977 - Born in Pretoria, South Africa
Saturday's child works hard for a living goes the saying.
Childhood spent living in various towns in South Africa.
The daughter of a minister, my family moved regularly in South Africa. Moving from Pretoria to Grahamstown and Pinetown before arriving back in the Southern Suburbs of Johannesburg where my parents grew up.
Schooling years in Johannesburg
Standard 1 - 5 (Grades 3-7) spent in local primary schools in and around Brackenhurst, Gauteng.
Standard 6 - Matric (Grades 8-12) spent at the wonderful Johanesburg School of Art, Ballet, Drama and Music/National School of the Arts. I specialised in Drama and focused on backstage skills and stage management.
Bachelor of Arts Degree
Attending the University for Natal - Pietermaritzburg campus, I did a Bachelor Degree in Applied Language Studies and Psychology. I took up fencing as a sport, and remained involved in the theatre throughout my university years.
1999 - Travel to the USA
On completing my third year of university I took off to go Au Pair in America. Living in Minnesota for 3 months, and then moving to Maryland. I lived outskirts of the Washington DC area, exploring the East Coast of the US during my time there.
Millenium - London & Scotland
The travel bug had bitten and I moved to the UK. Working in various sales and service jobs in London and the Scottish Highlands.
2001 - The year of many cities.
I returned to Durban, South Africa, and within months realised I needed to travel again. This time jetting off to teach English in Taiwan, followed my a few months in Sydney and then finally back to Durban.
2002 - A Career in Travel
I joined Flight Centre as a travel consultant and worked my way up to store manager. I worked in the Kloof, Gateway and Musgrave branches.
2004 - Back to the US
With an opportunity for me to return to the US, I spent three years around the Washington, DC area working as a nanny, and various other jobs. With more time to explore, I traveled extensively, including a trip to the West Coast
2007 - Return to South Africa
Home for my sister's first wedding, I re-joined Flight Centre and settled back down in Durban. Loving the ability to travel for work, train new staff and make people happy!
2012 - A ring & a Wedding
On 4/8/12 I married Brian in a lovely ceremony in the Natal Midlands.
2013 - My Recipe Hampers
My first business was aimed at foodies. Creating custom gift hampers of recipe ingredients. Offering to source complicated ingredients on behalf of non-foodies for their foodie friends. It never really took off. I learned a lot!
Rainbow Hope SA was Created
After experiencing two unexplained losses in a row I took to blogging and found incredible support. I chose to pay that support forward by creating a Facebook Group to support mothers experiencing miscarriage. Rainbow Hope SA was born!
A Baby Boy
On 28 May 2014, Brian and Bianca welcomed a baby boy into the family. This was after a series of unexplained miscarriages.
2014 - Bianca the Concierge
A complete switch in paths saw me working as a personal concierge with Leavit2me. Once again I was making people happy and allowing them to focus on the things they needed to.
A Baby Girl
On 10 July 2017, Brian and Bianca welcomed a baby girl into the family. This followed a loss 18 month earlier - a girl with Turner's Syndrome - a missed miscarriage.
2017 - WAHM WorkSpace
A pregnant mind and pregnant body created a baby and a business. A few months after my daughter was born I launched WAHM WorkSpace with the intent of a coworking space for working moms. Within 6 months the business pivoted to a Virtual Assistance service, and has been growing ever since.
2019 - The Baby Bryce Foundation
My 8th pregnancy ended in a termination for medical reasons, after the baby, a boy we named Bryce, suffered from sever cystic hygroma and tested positive for T21. To deal with the trauma, I started The Baby Bryce Foundation to assist women experiencing pregnancy complications, and to educate the friends, family and care providers supporting these women.
2020 - A Pandemic and Development
Amidst the chaos of the world in the 2020 Pandemic, I focused on growing my business interests and expanding my reach. The opportunity was there to provide support and services to many people whose businesses were transitioning.
2023 - Pursuing my Passions
As my business grows and supports me, so I have the opportunity to pursue my passions of training, teaching and speaking. Empowering women is my absolutely core value and I hope to fulfil my deepest destiny by embracing my ability to do that.
My Values
Empowerment
Empowerment
Enabling others to fully embody their own innate power.
Connection
Connection
The power of relationships is underestimated. Connection with others is what keeps the world running
Integrity
Integrity
Kindness and humanness go a long way to improving lives.